Sometimes you just have to do the right things :)

 

“Circumstances change us. Whether you like it or no, reality takes control of you, and you know what? That sucks. Change sucks.”
“Change is not always bad. It broadens your mindset.”

“But sometimes you make a choice in that moment and you know in your heart it is going to change everything.”

Scary. Scary how one choice you make is going to attack you like a snowball of consequences running down a slope. But we still have the chance of making that choice. Always. Every single time. Most of the times we humans are afraid to make and stick to our choices because the consequences are sure to follow and we lack the courage to face them. Not always the choice of a person turns out to be in their favor. There are 2 kinds of people in this world. One who will let go of anybody’s happiness for their own and the other who will let go of their own happiness for anybody else’s.

I believe destinies are handmade. If we want something, we will do anything to make it happen, on the other hand if we don’t want something; we will make sure it doesn’t happen. We will not try hard enough. It’s just a clearer picture of how badly someone wants something. It’s that simple. I’ve reached a point where questions are teaching me more than answers ever did. We humans are ready to do anything to fill that empty space, anything. Be it momentary, we will do anything to distract our hearts; we will run behind anything that gives us an escape, an escape from reality. We will also soon realize that escapism is only transitory and we will also get pissed off.

Who we are today is because of what happened to us yesterday. People do change. Change is good, I guess. Or maybe we convince ourselves that it is good because we’ve come too far and there is no going back to who we once were. We humans enjoy pain. We cling on to it, the reason being that it has taken away a part of us that we are not completely ready to let go of. We find that part of us, in pain and hence we enjoy pain.

“We all know a lot of people who are happy only when they are unhappy.” – Paulo Coelho. This quote has never made more sense to me than now.

If small little things in life give you joy, be glad for there is still sanity left in you 🙂

My cup of chai :)

“I don’t know anything with certainty, but seeing the stars makes me dream.”
— Vincent van Gogh

Starting with this great lines I introduce you to “My Cup Of Chai” which is a post just to motivate you in a manner you never thought of. There are many instances in your life when you give up saying its not my cup of tea, but some of these motivational lines may make you believe in yourself and moreover help you in understanding yourself much better. So just take a sip of “chai” and refresh yourself for the upcoming challenge where you can be more positive and say its ” My Cup Of Chai”.

Love yourself like you’re not waiting for someone else to do it. You will have to acknowledge that there will be a few times in your life when all your instincts will tell you to do something, something that defies logic, upsets your plans, and may seem crazy to others. When that happens, you do it. Listen to your instincts and ignore everything else. Ignore logic, ignore the odds, ignore the complications, and just go for it.
You’re disappointed when you don’t become all at once. You want to be the Big Bang, you want to be the perfect you now so that you can get on with living. Growing is a process, but trees don’t get their rings by exploding out of the ground all haphazard and towering. The truth is our whole lives are about becoming and once we have become it’s just about over. Don’t throw away the years in the dirt; everything extravagant has started out small.

Some people live in cages with bars built from their own fears and doubts. Some people live in cages with bars built from other people’s fears and doubts; their parents, their friends, their brothers and sisters, their families. Some people live in cages with bars built from the choices others made for them, the circumstances other people imposed upon them. And some people break free. It’s messing people up, this social pressure to “find your passion” and “know what it is you want to do”. It’s perfectly fine to just live your moments fully, and marvel as many small and large passions, many small and large purposes enter and leave your life. For many people there is no realization, no bliss to follow, no discovery of your life’s purpose. This isn’t sad, it’s just the way things are. Stop trying to find the forest and just enjoy the trees. Like wildflowers; you must allow yourself to grow in all the places people thought you never would.

You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.

Allow yourself to be a beginner. No one starts off being excellent. All that matters is that you’re smiling and you’re happy. Figure out what makes you happy; pursue that. Everything else is bullshit !!

Keep Calm and Be Urself :)

You are YOU

There are times when you need to remind yourself:

1. “I have made it this far, of course I can reach where I want to!”
2. “I have passed through tough and tougher times and so I’m strong & stronger, Wise and wiser!”
3.”I am not somebody. But hey I am neither nobody. I am “ME”. Amongst Billions of people there’s just 1 ME & that ME is pretty awesoME!”
4. “One bad day shouldn’t have the power to define my life as bad life. One failure shouldn’t affect my journey towards success!”
5. “I love ME myself & I am ready to make ME the better ME!”
6. “No matter what, I have to keep moving forward. The only time I look back should be the time when I have to remind myself the odds I have faced, the miles I’ve crossed ,the goals I have achieved & the steps I have taken towards my life’s purpose!”♥♥

Sometimes, all you need is to talk to yourself and find out how awesome you are!
And if you can’t do that, call me I will!

Good Luck 🙂 🙂