My cup of chai :)

“I don’t know anything with certainty, but seeing the stars makes me dream.”
— Vincent van Gogh


Starting with this great lines I introduce you to “My Cup Of Chai” which is a post just to motivate you in a manner you never thought of. There are many instances in your life when you give up saying its not my cup of tea, but some of these motivational lines may make you believe in yourself and moreover help you in understanding yourself much better. So just take a sip of “chai” and refresh yourself for the upcoming challenge where you can be more positive and say its ” My Cup Of Chai”.

Love yourself like you’re not waiting for someone else to do it. You will have to acknowledge that there will be a few times in your life when all your instincts will tell you to do something, something that defies logic, upsets your plans, and may seem crazy to others. When that happens, you do it. Listen to your instincts and ignore everything else. Ignore logic, ignore the odds, ignore the complications, and just go for it.
You’re disappointed when you don’t become all at once. You want to be the Big Bang, you want to be the perfect you now so that you can get on with living. Growing is a process, but trees don’t get their rings by exploding out of the ground all haphazard and towering. The truth is our whole lives are about becoming and once we have become it’s just about over. Don’t throw away the years in the dirt; everything extravagant has started out small.

Some people live in cages with bars built from their own fears and doubts. Some people live in cages with bars built from other people’s fears and doubts; their parents, their friends, their brothers and sisters, their families. Some people live in cages with bars built from the choices others made for them, the circumstances other people imposed upon them. And some people break free. It’s messing people up, this social pressure to “find your passion” and “know what it is you want to do”. It’s perfectly fine to just live your moments fully, and marvel as many small and large passions, many small and large purposes enter and leave your life. For many people there is no realization, no bliss to follow, no discovery of your life’s purpose. This isn’t sad, it’s just the way things are. Stop trying to find the forest and just enjoy the trees. Like wildflowers; you must allow yourself to grow in all the places people thought you never would.

You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.

Allow yourself to be a beginner. No one starts off being excellent. All that matters is that you’re smiling and you’re happy. Figure out what makes you happy; pursue that. Everything else is bullshit !!